Crush Catastrophe

Dear Miss Know It All,

I have a crush on one of my good friends, but he likes this other girl. When we're alone, he blushes and stuff. Should I tell him how I feel or avoid getting rejected?

- A.M.

Hey there!

Your crush likes another girl. That's pretty sad, I feel really sorry for you, because that's a pretty painful thing to have gone through, y'know what I mean? (Of course you do) However, he seems to blush when you guys are alone together. Don't read too much into that though, it can play mind games with your head. It's easy to get confused by that, though.

The only way you can find out for sure is by telling him how you feel, no cap. It's going to be hard, and you're going to have to gather up all your courage, but once you get it off your chest, you're going to be relieved of this great weight that you keep dragging around with you. If you don't let him know, you might never know whether he liked you or not. 

Rejection is inevitable. You will be rejected by at least one person in your life -- if not more -- before you find the right person. It's hard to deal with it, but you can eventually get over that too -- time heals everything. Take risks. Be bold. You miss a 100% of the chances you don't take. 

Love,

Miss Know It All