Girlfriend Crisis!

Dear Miss Know It All,

I've seen my girlfriend hanging out with some other guys in the halls during all of our free periods. When I try to talk to her, she just brushes me off! What should I do? F.L Ah, that must be hard for you. I'm pretty sure I wouldn't want to see my S.O. hanging out with other people and then simply avoid me when I try to talk to them about it. Assume the best though, just because she's hanging out with other guys, it doesn't necessarily mean she's interested in them romantically. If it does make you feel insecure about it, be straight with her. Tell her exactly how you feel without beating around the bush. If she tries to brush you off, be firm - but also gentle at the same time; you don't want to come off as a possessive girlfriend, because she may not like that. Let her know that you're not being possessive or controlling, but you're just worried that she may be less interested with you. 

If she absolutely refuses to listen, write everything down in a letter. Whatever you feel, jot it down. Get her to be alone with you, give her the letter, and make sure she reads through the whole thing, and ask her to tell you how she feels about it. 

Love, 

Miss Know It All